Every Tuesday and Thursday at work, we have been doing Girls on the Run at the Boys and Girls Club here in Havelock. I have done many things around this community so I have learned a lot about the people that live near and around the base. I don't think there are enough people out there that reach out to the community and really understand the community they live in, especially the military. It is easy for military families to get wrapped up in the military life and not look outside of that community. There can be a vast difference between a base community and a civilian community depending on where you are located.
I started running cross country/track when I was 12 years old. At the time, I just thought it was something that I was "supposed" to do since my brother ran as well. Of course, when you start in 7th grade, they have to try to make it as fun as possible so it was a "fun" thing to do. After 6 years of competitive running and then 5 more recreational, I have become to love running and do it because I want to and enjoy it rather than because I have to. I do understand that not many people see it that way and do not understand how I can possibly feel that way about running, but I also don't understand how someone wont even give it a chance. Running changed my life forever. I didn't know this when I was 12, but I gave it a chance and look what happened. It has become a part of my life, even 11 years later.
This past week was a rough one at Girls on the Run. When we started on Tuesday, many of the girls complained. We had planned to warm-up, walk 5 minutes, and run-walk-run-walk for different amounts of time, aka intervals. They complained and complained. We received comments like, "Why do I have to be here? Why are we doing this? I didn't dress up for this; I dressed up to impress my boyfriend!!" These girls are between the ages of 10-15. What a tough age to motivate. Then on Thursday, it was like a total change in the game. The girls were receptive and willing to try. We told them to run for as much of 15 minutes straight as possible. They complained some but not near as much. When it was all over and we were getting ready to leave, the girls were telling us bye and giving us hugs and everything. Very weird. I left feeling very accomplished and proud. I was hoping we had finally reached to them and we were finally on their "good" side.
Well, Tuesday came and went today and the girls were just like they were last week. Rough. It is very hard to want to go and be motivating. We leave on days like today wondering, "What can motivate these girls? What are we not doing?" I never really realized how hard of an age this is to reach out to. We have two more weeks and they are supposed to run a 5K. We will see how that works out.